If you can say something nice, do.
Here's a common conversation between partners who have been together for a while:
"You never tell me i look nice anymore."
"Well you know you do.It should be obvious."
Look,we all need reassurance and encouragement. We're human and that's how we work.
Everyone likes to be told when they're doing well. That's why they have prize-giving at school right?
Reality check,people always want to be recognized and approved of,and one of the main ways we do that for people is by telling them so.
Why should your partner be any different?and if they love you and i'm sure they do-it means more to them to hear your approval than anyone else's. So you need to make sure that you always let your partner know you're pleased or approving:
etc.
*when they look nice
*when they've done something you respect or admire
*when they've produced something good-a thoughtful gift
*when they've been creative
You should tell them that you love them.
All of this will help your partner feel cherished and cared for,and feel good about themselves.
And that's what you want from them.So rather than thinking, "it's obvious, i shouldn't need to say it," you need to think, "its obvious so why wouldn't i say it?"
Sometimes, its just a matter of putting a little effort to make a difference.
eg.sending a sweet good morning msg to your partner to start the day with.
(i tell you,It works k! i felt happy each time he text me does kind of msges.)
well.......
We all need reassurance and encouragement.We're human, and that's how we work. :The Rules of love-LYYANA
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