Infatuation is instant desire.
it is one set of glands calling another.
Love i s friendship that has caught fire.
It takes root and grows-One day at a time.
Infatuation is marked by a feeling insecurity.
YOu are excited & eager but not genuinely happy.
There are nagging doubts, unasnwered questions,
little bits and pieces about ur beloved dat u would juz
as soon not examine too closely.
It might spoil the dream.
Love is quiet understanding and the mature acceptance of imperfection.
It is real.
It gives u strength & grows beyond u-to bloster ur loved.
You are warmed by hie presence,even when he is away.
Miles do not seperate u.YOu want him nearer.
But near or far.u know he is yours & u can wait.
Infatuation says
"
We must get married right away.I can't risk losing him."
Love says,
"
Be patient.Dont panic.Plan ur future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement.
If u ar ehonest,u will admit it is difficult to be in one another's company
unless u are sure it will end in intimacy.
Love is the maturation of friendship.
YOu must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence.
When he's away,u wonder if he's cheating.SOmetimes u check.
Love means trust.
YOu are calm,secure & unthreatened.
He feels that trust,& it makes him even more trustworthy.
Infatuation might lead you to do things you'll regret later,
but LOve never will.
Love is an upper.
It makes u look up.
It makes you think up.
It even makes you a better person than you were before.
*I was inspired by this writter.Ann Landers.*
What he wrote,makes alot of sense.
Lyyana
